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STEVE KAPLAN
THE ROLE OF A FINANCIAL NEUTRAL IN THE DIVORCE PROCESS
Money is so much more than a way to pay the bills. It’s how we judge ourselves and others. It represents power and control. For a divorcing couple, uncertainty around finances and a sense of mistrust complicate the process. Enter the financial neutral, a professional who serves to uncover the economic reality of a given situation and establish trust, thereby changing the tenor of the conversation in a conflict-resolution proceeding.
Steve Kaplan is a CPA/ABV based in White Plains who practices largely in the area of dispute resolution, providing valuation, financial analysis, and settlement support services. Steve is trained in Collaborative Divorce Practice and Collaborative Civil Practice as well as mediation. He also serves as an executive board member for the Hudson Valley Collaborative Divorce and Dispute Resolution Association.
Today, Steve sits down with Katherine to explain his role as a CPA in the divorce setting. He discusses how financial neutrals navigate mistrust between parties, make difficult decisions around what to disclose, and provide an understanding of the couple’s economic reality. Steve shares how his role is different in a litigated case versus the collaborative divorce or mediation setting. Listen in for insight about how financial professionals help establish trust in a conflict-resolution proceeding and learn Steve’s approach to working with former partners in the divorce process.
TOPICS COVERED
Steve’s role as a CPA in the divorce setting
- Numbers tell story
- Verify information
Steve’s aim to provide both parties with economic independence
Why financial neutrals don’t work with divorce clients after the process
How financial neutrals navigate the mistrust between parties in divorce
The difficult decisions financial neutrals make around what is material
The financial neutral’s forensic work to uncover facts
The financial neutral’s role in a litigated case vs. collaborative setting
- Gather, present facts in courtroom setting
- Part of resolution-finding team in collaboration
How trust changes the tone of a conflict-resolution proceeding
The complexity of money as an instrument of power, control
Steve’s first steps for serving as financial neutral in a divorce
- Initial conversation with BOTH parties
- Outline expectations, discuss time and cost
CONNECT WITH STEVE KAPLAN
Call (914) 733-7340
CONNECT WITH KATHERINE MILLER
The Center for Understanding Conflict
The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller
Email katherine@westchesterfamilylaw.com
Call (914) 738-7765