A Coparenting Arrangement That Puts Kids First With Bill DeSalvo

Traditional coparenting arrangements put the focus on the divorcing couple. They establish new, separate households, and the kids go back and forth.

But what happens if you shift your focus and build a coparenting plan around the children?

When Bill DeSalvo’s ex-wife introduced him to the idea of nesting, he had misgivings. But he was open to the alternative because of its benefits for his kids.

On the last episode of Divorce Dialogues, Bill’s ex-wife, Beth Behrendt, walked us through the fundamentals of nesting, a coparenting strategy in which the children stay in the family home and the parents move in and out.

Today, Bill joins Katherine to discuss the experience of nesting from his perspective, sharing the logistical questions he had around how it would work and how their arrangement has evolved over time.

Bill explains what he learned about himself through nesting and describes the mutual respect he and Beth established by putting rules in place early on.

Listen in for Bill’s advice on building structure into a nesting arrangement without ‘scoreboarding’ and find out if you have what it takes to make nesting work for your family.